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Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Friendship and Connection, Week 7 by Patti Greene

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Welcome to my NEW Blog Series: Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Friendship and Connection, Week 7 – Final Post of 7/7

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About the Series: This new series shares the story of my friendship with Glory. She is Nigerian, and I am from the United States, yet God tied our hearts together in a beautiful way. We met at a Bible study in Lagos, Nigeria, and her love for Jesus was clear from the very first day.

Glory later moved to Canada, and during a recent visit, I interviewed her about her life and faith. I’ll be sharing one topic each week:

Week 1 – Our Connection and Story: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-week-1/

Week 2 – Early Life and Faith: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-conversations-with-glory-early-life-and-faithweek-2/

Week 3 – Journey and Calling:  Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Journey and Calling, Week 3 by Patti Greene | Greene Pastures by Patti Londa Greene

Week 4 – Singleness and Ministry: greenepastures.org/singleness-and-ministry/

Week 5 – Writing and Ministry Together: greenepastures.org/writing-and-minstry-together/

Week 6 – Reflection & Encouragement: greenepastures.org/reflection-and-encouragement

Week 7 – Friendship and Connection: greenepastures.org/friendship-and-connection

Q. What does our friendship mean to you personally and spiritually?

A. Personally and spiritually, our friendship means a lot to me because I see it as a gift from God that came at a time I needed it — even before I realized how much I needed it to get through the season I was facing. I’m very thankful to God for our relationship. I am encouraged. I am blessed. It has been such a gift to know that I have you in my life, and that I get to share my walk, my challenges, my fears — and share in yours.

It’s encouraging to know you have someone who truly knows you and whom you truly know. Someone who sees beyond what everyone else sees on social media. Someone who understands where you’re coming from and what you’re dealing with. Someone whose heart for God you trust so deeply that when they speak into your life, your guard is down and you receive it because you know their heart toward God is pure.

There is nothing like a relationship orchestrated by God. You can trust their heart for God and their heart for you because you know there are no selfish interests — they truly care. You can afford to be “naked and unashamed” concerning your life and your journey with this person. That is rare. It’s not something you find every day. It is a gift from God, and whoever finds such a friendship should value and honor it.

And ours is unique because it’s not just friendship — it’s also the mother‑daughter, mentor‑mentee element. It is a unique gift many people do not have and most likely need, because we all need connections that give us opportunities to serve and be served, to mentor and be mentored, to pour into others and be refilled.

I know I’ve lived through seasons when I didn’t think I needed friends. I was happy to be alone. I was okay being alone because I felt friendship was such a burden — until I learned that God didn’t create us to do life alone. We know God is always present with us, and sometimes He makes His presence known through connections and relationships — a physical voice that reminds us of what God has spoken concerning us, of what He is doing in our lives that we may not be able to see because of what we’re going through.

Most importantly, we need God. And we need God‑ordained connections and relationships — that’s how He created us. I’m so grateful that I got to share that with you, and that we will have fun doing it.

Q. How has God used our relationship in your life?

A. God has used our relationship to bless me, encourage me, and hold me together through the years. I do not feel like I must do life alone because I have this precious connection that ministers to me not just spiritually but also physically. We talk about the things I’m dealing with, and you add them to your prayer list. I know I can always reach out.

I look forward to our girl trips because they are always such a fun time — a chance to wind down, enjoy life, and enjoy the gifts God has given us. I also look forward to my birthday and Christmas gifts every year.

Being a very private person, it has been a blessing that in the absence of my biological mum, I have a solid friend and mother that I trust. Every woman needs a gift and a blessing like that — not a million followers, but trusted friends.

If you don’t have that, pray and ask God. That’s one of the things I learned as I went from a season of not having friends to a season where God began to plant people in my life — that’s how we met. God brought her into my life at the right time, and that connection has stayed solid for years.

I would encourage anyone who doesn’t have relationships like this to ask God. He made us for connection. He made us for relationship. He made us for community. Ask God to bring the right people into your life, and He will. And I pray you will be discerning enough to recognize those people when God brings them, so you do not turn them away because of past hurt.

Just posing in San Antonio!

Q. What do you think makes a Christ-centered friendship different from other friendships?

A. What makes a Christ‑centered relationship or friendship different is that Jesus is at the center — not you, not me. It’s all about Jesus. That’s what keeps our relationship different, alive, and deeply relatable despite our differences.

We share one common truth that never changes — Jesus. We share the word of God that remains the same. And that truth is stronger than biology. The blood of Jesus brings us together and keeps us together, and that is one of the things that keeps our friendship strong.

Having Jesus as the foundation means we can sit together and talk about what we have in Him forever and never get tired because we are excited about the word of God. We share common values. We love the word of God. We love our walk with God. We have so much to talk about and so much to share.

And even when we are going through difficult times, we can rely on each other. We can support each other. We can pray for one another, knowing nobody will take advantage of the other. Nobody is looking for what they can get. We are here for one another — to sharpen, support, and encourage each other.

That is friendship. And it is beautiful.

Just chatting at the Calgary Zoo

FACT by Patti

First, I want to express my deep gratefulness for the chance to interview my sweet Glory. My prayer is that through this series, you have learned more about connection, faith, your journey and calling, singleness, ministry, writing, reflection, encouragement, and friendship. I wanted people to see what it looks like to live life depending on the Lord. It isn’t always easy, and it isn’t always smooth, but we have a God who loves us, hears our prayers, and stays close while we wait for His answers and His gentle nudges.

Glory is not my only friend. God has blessed me with some close anointed friends over the years, and several have already gone home to be with Him. We are never too old to make new friends, even though it may feel harder as we age. My mother, who passed at age 94, used to tell me to always have younger friends because people come and go, and you will still need friendship when you are older. She was right.

Friendships do not just appear. They take time. We must choose to be present, to share our lives, and to open our hearts. Deep godly friendships grow when we make space for them — the kind of friendship where you can share your struggles and never fear that your secrets will be repeated. Jesus spent time with His disciples, and we should take time for our friends, even when we feel shy or unsure.

Many times, the first or second time you meet someone, you sense that this is a friendship worth pursuing. My advice is simple: follow the Spirit’s leading and see where God takes it. He knows exactly who belongs in your life.

Thank you again, Glory, for being part of “my interview.” My questions may not have been perfect, but my prayer is that between the two of us, someone has been encouraged to move closer to the presence of God — and closer to the people He has placed in their life. I hope this series helps others desire and seek out the kind of godly friendships that strengthen the heart and draw us nearer to Jesus. And Glory, I’m privileged to be called your “Mum.”

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Bible Verse:

As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another. — Proverbs 27:1

Prayer:

Dear Lord, thank You for the friendships You have given me. I am truly grateful for every person You have placed in my life. As I seek fellowship with others, please lead me to people who can encourage me, pray with me, and walk with me in ministry. Help me be an encouragement to them as well.

Bless our time together. Guide us into the kind of friendships that fit the seasons You know about in each of our lives. Give me wisdom. Give me discernment. Help me live a life of faith in everything I do.

Thank You again for Your love, Your guidance, and the gift of godly friends. Amen.

For my Nigerian Friends, Life is a journey!

No Wahala

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Answer Me: Developing a Heart for Prayer ISBN 978-1512760453

Bible Word Search Puzzles: The Gospels ISBN 979-8218070465

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Acts and Epistles ISBN 979-8218092696

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Epistles and Revelation ISBN 979-8363612046

Christian Caregiving: Practical Advice for a Happy Ending ISBN 978-0692115381

Awaken Me: A Devotional Prayer Journal ISBN 978-1490893181

Anchor Me: Laying a Foundation in Prayer and Bible Study ISBN 978-1490893174

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Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Reflection & Encouragement, Week 6 by Patti Greene

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Welcome to my NEW Blog Series: Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory /Reflection & Encouragement, Week 6

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About the Series: This new series shares the story of my friendship with Glory. She is Nigerian, and I am from the United States, yet God tied our hearts together in a beautiful way. We met at a Bible study in Lagos, Nigeria, and her love for Jesus was clear from the very first day.

Glory later moved to Canada, and during a recent visit, I interviewed her about her life and faith. I’ll be sharing one topic each week:

Week 1 – Our Connection and Story: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-week-1/

Week 2 – Early Life and Faith: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-conversations-with-glory-early-life-and-faithweek-2/

Week 3 – Journey and Calling:  Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Journey and Calling, Week 3 by Patti Greene | Greene Pastures by Patti Londa Greene

Week 4 – Singleness and Ministry: https://greenepastures.org/singleness-and-ministry/

Week 5 – Writing and Ministry Together: greenepastures.org/writing-and-minstry-together/

Week 6 – Reflection & Encouragement: THIS WEEK

Week 7 – Friendship and Connection

Valentine's Day

Q. What is one truth about Jesus that is carrying you right now?

A. One truth about Jesus that is carrying me right now, and has carried me for a very long time, is that God is faithful. If He has said it, He will do it. He might take His sweet time, and He may not do it when we want it or how we want it, but if God has promised, He will do it because He is faithful. I have experienced God’s faithfulness in my lifetime time and time again. I see His faithfulness in the lives of the people He brings my way. We need to rest in the knowledge that no matter what comes or goes, God is faithful — so wait for Him. Trust Him. Continue to walk in obedience. I know that He is faithful and will do just as He has promised, because I have seen Him do it for me and for others.

Q. What encouragement would you give to women who feel alone in their calling?

A. The encouragement I would share with women who feel alone in their calling is that you are not alone. God is our ever‑present help. You need to come into that place where God is your friend — your best friend. God is real. God is true. God is nearby. He is not somewhere out there trying to help you get through life. He is right here with us every step of the way, and He is our best friend. One of the things God taught me recently is that He is my mentor. God is everything to us, and He can be everything to you. I work with and mentor a lot of people — single, married, older, and younger — and one thing I have seen consistently is that even when you are married, even when you have children, even when you are surrounded and swamped with people, you still need God. There is a space in our lives that only God can fill. No spouse, parent, child, sibling, friend, job, career, or amount of money can fill God’s space in our hearts and lives.If we allow God to fill that space for us and truly be everything to us, that keeps us stable in the storms and challenges of life. You don’t feel so alone, even if people on the outside think you are alone. You have joy and peace because that is where God has called you for now. Sometimes it’s just for a season. Sometimes it’s just for a while. And even if it is for a lifetime, God is more than enough for every one of us to serve Him as He has called us.

If you’re serving God alone, know that you are not alone. God is our ever‑present help — not just in times of need, but through every season of life. He is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. If you can hold onto Him and learn to live in the reality of God being your ever‑present friend, it takes away the brunt of loneliness. So many people are married and lonely. Loneliness is not about having people around you. Some people live amid crowds and are still lonely. We live in a world that can be very isolating.

So if you can learn to find that space where Jesus is real and true and close to you, He will help you find contentment in your calling — whatever that may be. He helps us enjoy people when they’re around and be at peace when they are not, because He is always there with us and for us. I pray that you will discover the reality of His ever‑abiding presence and thoroughly enjoy it.

Q. What prayer or blessing would you speak over those listening to your story?

A. The prayer and blessing I would speak over the people who will be listening or reading is that you would experience God on a moment‑by‑moment basis, because God’s presence is more than enough for us. When we have God, we have peace. And when we have peace, we have joy. We are far more stable in a very unstable world. To have God is to have everything, because He is the only One who is consistent in a world that is constantly shifting.My prayer for you in this season is that you do not limit yourself because of the circumstances you find yourself in. That is something I have learned — not to limit myself. God has called me to people who are young and old, single and married, all trying to find meaning in a world that constantly throws meaningless things at us.No matter where you find yourself, my prayer is that you will experience the reality of the presence and the power of God in whatever situation you are going through right now. That you will experience God as your Rescuer — the One who snatches you out of situations you cannot help yourself through or escape. That you will experience God as your Redeemer — the One who not only saves you from trouble but also goes ahead to right the wrongs you have been dealt. And that you will experience God as your Restorer — the One who not only makes things right but also makes up for every loss you may have experienced through the years as a result of what you’ve been through.

God can do all of that, and I pray that you will experience Him doing all of that for you and with you, in Jesus’ name, amen.

Valentine's Day

FACT by Patti

Glory and Patti, 2019

I know Glory to be a very faithful woman. I believe the Lord shaped her through her upbringing, her salvation, her Bible reading, her prayer life, and her dependence on the Holy Spirit. But I have also seen her go through seasons when she wondered what God was doing. That makes her just like the rest of us. None of us stay strong every day. We are human, and we face sadness, loneliness, and moments when we ask God why He answers some prayers and seems silent on others.

In those times, the Lord gently reminds us that His time is not our time. When we carry desires in our hearts and we wait for God to move, He uses that waiting to grow patience. And patience grows endurance. God never wastes a season. He always knows what is best for His children. Some believers learn this early, and others learn it slowly, step by step.

What I have seen in Glory’s life is not perfection, but a beautiful pattern: she lifts herself up quickly, turns her heart back toward the Lord, and gets back on track. I don’t know how long it took her to learn that kind of trust, but I see it clearly now. Her faith may bend, but it does not break. And even in her questions, she keeps choosing God. That is a quiet testimony all by itself.

Bible Verse:

The Lord is good to those who wait for Him. — Lamentations 3:25

Prayer:

Dear Lord, please help me to live constantly in Your presence. As I encounter situations and circumstances, give me the faith to know You are in control. Thank you for being by my side when I am lonely. May I continue to trust in Your faithfulness to me. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

Next Week: Friendship & Connection

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Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God ISBN: 979-8284335017 

Answer Me: Developing a Heart for Prayer ISBN 978-1512760453

Bible Word Search Puzzles: The Gospels ISBN 979-8218070465

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Acts and Epistles ISBN 979-8218092696

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Epistles and Revelation ISBN 979-8363612046

Christian Caregiving: Practical Advice for a Happy Ending ISBN 978-0692115381

Awaken Me: A Devotional Prayer Journal ISBN 978-1490893181

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How Do You Know Who to Marry? by Patti Greene

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Two Hearts
Two Hearts

A younger woman (whom I have known for a while) came to me with one of life’s biggest questions: “How do you know who to marry? “

As an older woman, Scripture calls me to guide — so I shared the simple truth God put on my heart. (She has approved my sharing to help others who may have the same question).

The Question

Dear Miss. Patti (Dear‑Abby Style),

I’m in my mid‑30s, and I’ve never dated before. Lately I’ve been thinking about what it would be like to have someone by my side, but I’m also nervous. My mother went through painful experiences with men, and I don’t want to repeat her story.

How do you know when a man is truly ‘the one’? How did you know your husband was the right person for you? I would really appreciate your wisdom.

No Name

My Response

1. Shared Faith

Your question is a wonderful one, and I’m glad you asked. The very first thing to look for is that he is a born‑again believer who truly follows Jesus. Not just in words, but in the way he lives.

“Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.” — 2 Corinthians 6:14

Watch how he treats people — waitresses, coworkers, his parents. A man who honors others will honor you.

2. Character & Respect

Pay attention to his everyday behavior.

• Does he speak kindly?
• Does he show patience?
• Does he respect your boundaries?
• Does he listen to you?
• Does he treat you like someone valuable?

Avoid anyone who yells, belittles, pressures, or shows signs of anger or a need for control.

“Love is patient and kind… it does not insist on its own way.” — 1 Corinthians 13:4–5

3. Purity & Clear Thinking

Avoid premarital sex. It clouds judgment, creates emotional confusion, and can hide red flags. Purity protects your heart and helps you see clearly.

“Flee from sexual immorality.” — 1 Corinthians 6:18

A man who honors God with his body will honor God with his marriage.

4. Shared Life Direction

Ask yourself:

• Are we spiritually compatible?
• Can we talk openly and trust each other?
• Do we laugh together?
• Is he responsible with work or finances?
• Does he want children?
• Would I be stepping into a family he already has?

Marriage is partnership — not just romance.

5. Family & Community Insight

  • Introduce him to people who love you and know you well.
  • Ask for honest feedback.
  • Sometimes others see things we miss.

6. Commitment Before God

Marriage is a covenant before the Lord.

Yes, you vow to love each other, but you also promise God to walk through life together ‘til death do you part. Hard seasons will come, and you need a man who will stand with you, not run away.

“What God has joined together, let no man separate.” — Mark 10:9

This does not mean you have to stay with someone who is abusive or unfaithful. But it does mean choosing someone steady, faithful, and committed.

7. My Own Story

You asked how I knew my husband was right for me. We met at church, and both of us were ready to commit ourselves to marriage — not just emotionally, but spiritually. He was kind to me from the very beginning. We talked openly, shared our hearts, and learned to trust each other.

One of the first signs of his sincerity was his visit to me in the hospital early in our relationship. That told me he truly cared. He treated my mother with respect and tenderness, and that meant a lot to me.

Our backgrounds, education, and upbringings were very different — but Jesus was at the center for both of us. That has held us together for 47 years.

We never believed there was only one possible person in the world we could have married. Instead, we believed marriage was a covenant before God — a commitment to honor, cherish, and walk with one another for the rest of our lives. And by God’s grace, that is what we have done and continue to do.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.” — Psalm 127:1
“Love never fails.” — 1 Corinthians 13:8

8. Final Thoughts

After 47 years of marriage, the biggest indicators I’ve seen are these:

  • Does he love the Lord?
  • Does he truly love you?
  • Does he respect you?
  • Do you love him?
  • What does his past tell you about his patterns?

Pray over these things. Search the Bible. God will guide you along the way!

Bible Verse:

Show me your ways, Lord. Teach me your truth. Guide me because you are the God who saves me.

—Psalm 24:4-5

Prayer:

O holy God, you know my heart. You know the many questions that swirl around in my mind. Please help me know and feel You working in my life, answering my many questions, and leading me along the path You want me to be on, with or without a spouse. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

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Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God ISBN: 979-8284335017 

Answer Me: Developing a Heart for Prayer ISBN 978-1512760453

Bible Word Search Puzzles: The Gospels ISBN 979-8218070465

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Acts and Epistles ISBN 979-8218092696

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Epistles and Revelation ISBN 979-8363612046

Christian Caregiving: Practical Advice for a Happy Ending ISBN 978-0692115381

Awaken Me: A Devotional Prayer Journal ISBN 978-1490893181

Anchor Me: Laying a Foundation in Prayer and Bible Study ISBN 978-1490893174

 

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Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Singleness and Ministry, Week 4 by Patti Greene

Welcome to my NEW Blog Series: Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Singleness and Ministry, Week 4

God knows more than me

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About the Series: This new series shares the story of my friendship with Glory. She is Nigerian, and I am from the United States, yet God tied our hearts together in a beautiful way. We met at a Bible study in Lagos, Nigeria, and her love for Jesus was clear from the very first day.

Glory later moved to Canada, and during a recent visit, I interviewed her about her life and faith. I’ll be sharing one topic each week:

Week 1 – Our Connection and Story: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-week-1/

Week 2 – Early Life and Faith: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-conversations-with-glory-early-life-and-faithweek-2/

Week 3 – Journey and Calling – Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Journey and Calling, Week 3 by Patti Greene | Greene Pastures by Patti Londa Greene

Week 4 – Singleness and Ministry – THIS WEEK

Week 5 – Writing and Ministry Together – Be Inspired

6 – Reflection and Encouragement – Be Encouraged: You’re Not Walking Alone

Week 7 – Friendship and Connection – Enjoy Christ-Centered Friendships

Flower on Bamboo

GLORY: Singleness and Ministry, Week 4

Q. What has it been like serving the Lord as a single woman?

A. Serving the Lord as a single woman has been an adventure, especially in a world where people expect you to get married at a certain time. You grow up thinking you will do what everyone else does — get married, have children, and serve God as a family.

But I have learned that our paths are all different. The most important thing is to see where God is leading you, how He is leading you, and to be content walking that path with Him.

It helps not to compare yourself with others, but to trust that God knows what is best for you. God will give you what is yours in His timing. That kind of contentment has helped me serve the Lord with all that I am and all that I have.

Q. What joys have you discovered in this season?

A. What I have discovered in this season of serving God as a single woman is that God is enough. God is more than enough for us. The Word of God is always true, and if God says He is enough for us, then we don’t need anything extra. He is more than enough.

The real challenge is learning to take that truth, sit with it, walk with it, and be at peace with it — that God is enough for us. That doesn’t mean it’s wrong to be married. It doesn’t mean marriage is better or worse. It simply means God has a different path for each of us, and His timing for each of us is different.

Whatever season of life we find ourselves in, and whatever situation we face — whether married or single — the Word of God says that God is enough. Truly, truly, God is enough. His Word is true, and I’ve learned to enjoy God being enough for me.

Q. What challenges do you face, and how has God met you in them?

A. The challenges I have experienced serving God as a single woman come mostly from living in a society that assumes people should follow a certain path at certain times in their lives — like a woman should be married at a certain age, have children, and raise a family. When life doesn’t happen that way, it can look like something is incomplete or missing. But, like I said, God’s path for each of us is different.

The biggest challenge I’ve had to face is learning to keep my peace and my joy, no matter what I think people may be thinking, how they may interpret my situation, or what assumptions they may make. I’ve also had to learn how to continue serving God fully — in the exact place He has called me — using the room He provides for me, without letting myself be limited by the expectations people place on those who aren’t where they think they should be.

We live in a society where people think you should be married, you should have this or that, and if you don’t, they believe it limits you. Some even think being a woman limits you in ministry. But I have learned that we are all children of God, and God does not discriminate. God calls us according to His will and His purpose for our lives.

So I’ve learned, in the face of all those limitations, not to limit myself — because the limitations people put on me only hold power if I allow them to. I am the one who chooses whether those limitations hold me down. And I’ve learned that God puts no limit on me. So I do my best not to limit myself or allow assumptions, presumptions, or societal expectations to hinder my work and my service to God.

 
Glory, Pretending to Speak, Baylor University

Q. How do you stay encouraged when you’re doing ministry “alone” on the outside but never alone with Him?

A. How I stay encouraged during ministry alone is because I know that even though I am alone physically, I am not alone. I have never been alone, because His presence is so real and so true to me that I do not feel alone. I know that God is my ever‑present help, not just because the Bible says it, but because I know it and I experience it. I experience it day by day. God is my best friend. We talk all the time; we do things together. It’s not a phantom, and it’s not an idea. It is my real reality, so I do not feel alone.

I also encourage myself by remembering that it is better to be where God has called you than to be somewhere you placed yourself. Wherever God calls you, He gives you grace to stay there. But when we take ourselves to places God has not called us, we struggle. I have seen people enter relationships because they felt time was passing or because they simply wanted to be married. I have walked with people in those situations. I’ve seen them struggle and deal with things God was actually trying to protect them from. Seeing that has strengthened my determination to walk with God rather than walk outside His will and purpose for me.

So I have come to the conclusion that it is better to walk in obedience with God, be single, and keep my peace than to step outside His will, His timing, or His provision and end up struggling for the rest of my life just to meet a norm or fulfill a desire. Of course I want to get married. Of course I would love that. But I know His times and seasons are in His hands, so I am content to be where He has called me for now, until God opens the next door.

I have learned to find my peace and my joy in simply enjoying Him, enjoying what He calls me to do, and enjoying the people He brings into my life.

FACT by Patti

For 13 years, I’ve been Glory’s friend. I don’t know every detail of how she handled being single for so long—only what she has shared with me in confidence and what God has allowed me to see as her friend. I do know this: Glory has always wanted to be married. She hoped to share ministry with someone, and I understand that desire myself. I’ve seen her excitement when she thought marriage might happen, and I’ve also seen the sadness when it didn’t. I’ve seen her longing for children, and how that door never opened.

But underneath all those unfulfilled desires, I saw something stronger. I saw a woman of faith who wanted God’s will more than her own. I honestly wish I had the same courage she has shown. Sometimes we struggle because we want our desires met, but they don’t match God’s plan. In Glory, I see a woman who follows God first.

Even when contentment rises and falls, her love for Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit always bring her back to what is true—her earthly reality and her eternal blessings. Her life reminds me that contentment isn’t about getting everything we want. It’s about trusting the One who knows what is best.

Bible verse for contentment through hard times: “Godliness with contentment is great gain.” — 1 Timothy 6:6

Prayer: 

Dear Jesus, You see every woman who carries the same hopes Glory has carried. You know the ups and downs of wanting marriage, and watching it not happen. Please give these ladies Your perspective. Some are content without marriage or children, and some are not. Lead each one to a church family and into a deep walk with You. Help them love the life You have given them, and trust Your timing in all things. Amen.

Next Week: Writing and Ministry (Together)

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Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God ISBN: 979-8284335017 

Answer Me: Developing a Heart for Prayer ISBN 978-1512760453

Bible Word Search Puzzles: The Gospels ISBN 979-8218070465

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Acts and Epistles ISBN 979-8218092696

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Epistles and Revelation ISBN 979-8363612046

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Awaken Me: A Devotional Prayer Journal ISBN 978-1490893181

Anchor Me: Laying a Foundation in Prayer and Bible Study ISBN 978-1490893174

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Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Journey and Calling, Week 3 by Patti Greene

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Welcome to my NEW Blog Series: Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Journey and Calling

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About This Series:  This new series shares the story of my friendship with Glory. She is Nigerian, and I am from the United States, yet God tied our hearts together in a beautiful way. We met at a Bible study in Lagos, Nigeria, and her love for Jesus was clear from the very first day.

Glory later moved to Canada, and during a recent visit, I interviewed her about her life and faith. I’ll be sharing one topic each week:

Glory and Patti, Calgary, 2022

Week 1 – Our Connection and Story: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-week-1/

Week 2 – Early Life and Faith: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-conversations-with-glory-early-life-and-faithweek-2/

Week 3 – Journey and Calling – This blog
Week 4 – Singleness and Ministry – Being Single in Ministry
Week 5 – Writing and Ministry Together – Be Inspired
Week 6 – Reflection and Encouragement – Be Encouraged: You’re Not Walking Alone
Week 7 – Friendship and Connection – Enjoy Christ-Centered Friendships

GLORY’S JOURNEY AND CALLING, Week 3

Q. When did you first feel called into ministry?

A. From the time I gave my life to Jesus and through my friendship with Jonathan, I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life serving God, so I knew ministry would be my life and my life would be ministry.

Q. What moments or experiences confirmed that calling for you?

A. In those early days of faith after I gave my life to Jesus, I was deeply in love with God and His Word. I was eager to share His Word and His love with everyone I met. I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life serving Him. God also gave us—God and me—the gift of healing. I would pray for people, and He would heal them. I remember friends comparing me to a well-known Christian evangelist at the time. As a new believer, I did not know much about her, but I knew she served the Lord and had a ministry marked by bold acts of faith. So yes, I looked forward to serving God for the rest of my life as a full-time minister.

Life is a Journey

Q. How has God surprised you along the way?

A. Even though I was studying engineering at the time, my dream was to serve God in full-time ministry. How God has surprised me along the way is that He made clear then that He wanted me to continue in my field as an engineer, to continue in my work while serving Him with all that I am and all that I have. It is totally different from what I had thought because I wanted to go to Bible school and go into full-time ministry, but God held me back from going to Bible school. He did not want me to go. He wanted to teach me on the path of walking with Him and how He wanted me to serve Him in the way He wanted me to serve, in the places He wanted me to serve Him. What He’s done is provide opportunities for me to serve Him through my job. My job has provided opportunities for me to travel to different parts of the world where I go to work, and I am serving God outside of the church or with people that typically will not go to church. I have been blessed with opportunities to take people who have never been to church to church for the first time. I’ve been blessed with opportunities to lead people to Christ in huddle rooms, in corporate offices. I have joined people in holy matrimony and done all kinds of things for God at work, in places where God is not typically preached. And that is not by hitting everybody on the head with the Bible, but by walking with Jesus and letting people see my walk with God and reach out to me to be a part of their life and their journey. Those are ways I have been able to serve God. Also, my work has provided me with the means to do the things God wanted me to do, like publishing my books, going on mission trips, among others, and paying for things that people typically look for others to support them with. I have been able to support myself and pay for those things without having to look for external support.

Fact:

While Glory worked full-time as an engineer, I could never describe her as someone in part-time ministry. Knowing Glory, I have seen that ministry is not something she turns on and off depending on the setting; it is woven into who she is. She carries the presence of the Lord with her into her workplace, into conversations, into ordinary routines, and even into her weekends. Her faith is not reserved for church walls. God is on her mind throughout the day, and because of that, He has used her in places where some people may never have had the opportunity, interest, or courage to attend a church service or Christian gathering. Glory’s life reminds me that ministry can happen in conference rooms, offices, work trips, casual conversations, and quiet acts of obedience. She is well respected, sincere, dependable, and hardworking, but what stands out most is her genuine love for God and her desire to let others see Him through the way she lives.

Bible Verse: 

And I thank Christ Jesus our Lord who has enabled me, because He counted me faithful, putting me into the ministry (1 Timothy 1:12 NKJV).

Next Week: Singleness and Ministry

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Coming Soon: Luke 2: The Christmas Story: Discover the Birth of Jesus in Scripture

Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God ISBN: 979-8284335017 

Answer Me: Developing a Heart for Prayer ISBN 978-1512760453

Bible Word Search Puzzles: The Gospels ISBN 979-8218070465

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Acts and Epistles ISBN 979-8218092696

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Epistles and Revelation ISBN 979-8363612046

Christian Caregiving: Practical Advice for a Happy Ending ISBN 978-0692115381

Awaken Me: A Devotional Prayer Journal ISBN 978-1490893181

Anchor Me: Laying a Foundation in Prayer and Bible Study ISBN 978-1490893174

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Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Our Connection and Story, Week 1 by Patti Greene

Welcome to my NEW Blog Series Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory

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OUR CONNECTION AND STORY,  Week 1

This new series shares the story of my friendship with Glory. She is Nigerian, and I am from the United States, yet God tied our hearts together in a beautiful way. We met at a Bible study in Lagos, Nigeria, and her love for Jesus was clear from the very first day.

Glory later moved to Canada, and during a recent visit, I interviewed her about her life and faith. I’ll be sharing one topic each week:

• Week 1 – Our Connection and Story
• Week 2 – Early Life and Faith
• Week 3 – Journey and Calling
• Week 4 – Singleness and Ministry
• Week 5 – Writing and Ministry Together
• Week 6 – Reflection and Encouragement
• Week 7 – Friendship and Connection

Over time, our bond grew so sweet that she now calls me “Mum.” I pray her words bless your heart as much as hers have blessed mine.

How do you think the Lord knit our hearts together back in Lagos? 
I think it was at that Bible study after the introduction. They mentioned you had written a book, and being an author, I was curious and wanted to chat about your writing.
What stood out to you in those first conversations that made our bond feel so natural?
I think there was a spiritual connection. Sometimes, when I meet people, I can sense that God has something in store for this person in the long term. I may not be able to tell exactly what it is. I think I felt that with you the first time we connected. As we talked, your love for God and His Word became obvious, and both influenced our writing. Our works were mostly linked to the word of God and to experiences from our walk with God.
How would you describe the “mum-daughter” friendship God gave us?
I see the mum-daughter friendship God gave us as a very precious and special gift because it came at a time when I didn’t realize I needed that. I had just lost my mum, wasn’t talking about it, and was actually pushing away any idea of additional relationships as far as I was concerned; I had enough friends and didn’t need more. I wasn’t looking for another mother, but the way God worked it out was unique, so the least I could do was just enjoy the experience of the relationship. 
What does spiritual connection mean to you, and how do you recognize it when it happens?
I see spiritual connection as a gift from God. As I said earlier, there are people you meet, and you can sense there’s a deeper connection, not just a physical or emotional thing. It’s a deep knowing. I have sensed that a number of times, and each of those relationships God has allowed to thrive, and like the Bible says, we sharpen each other like iron – that’s how I see spiritual connections. It’s God’s gift to us, and it’s not hard for me to recognize because I’ve noticed that’s how God works with me. Whenever I sense that connection with someone, I keep my heart open to how God makes it work out, because I typically don’t have to make it happen, nor does the other person. God works it out for us as we trust and obey Him. He provides opportunities, opens doors for connections, and allows the relationship to go where and how it needs to. We just fall in line, walking in obedience as He perfects what He started.
Fact:

Our friendship began by being at the right place at the right time, which was totally a God thing, because at the time, Lagos’ population was 22 million.

Lagos, Nigeria Market
Bible Verse: 
A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity. Proverbs 17:17
Next Week: Follow the Journey
Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Early Life and Faith, Week 2
 
 

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Coming Soon: Luke 2: The Christmas Story: Discover the Birth of Jesus in Scripture

Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God
ISBN: 979-8284335017 
 
Answer Me: Developing a Heart for Prayer
ISBN 978-1512760453
 
Bible Word Search Puzzles: The Gospels
ISBN 979-8218070465
 
Bible Word Search Puzzles: Acts and Epistles
ISBN 979-8218092696
 
Bible Word Search Puzzles: Epistles and Revelation
ISBN 979-8363612046
 
Christian Caregiving: Practical Advice for a Happy Ending
ISBN 978-0692115381
 
Awaken Me: A Devotional Prayer Journal by Patti Greene
ISBN 978-1490893181
 
Anchor Me: Laying a Foundation in Prayer and Bible Study
ISBN 978-1490893174
 
 
 
 
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Crossing the Jordan: Embracing Change

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Leaving behind St. Louis for Houston was a big decision for my husband and me. While John was sorting out the details of his new job, I faced the daunting task of breaking the news to our three kids. Jennifer, our fiery 15-year-old, had carved out a life in Missouri she adored—friends, school, and yes, a boy.

I decided to spring the news at dinner, hoping for a touch of ceremony to soften the blow. But as soon as the words left my mouth, Jennifer’s reaction was swift and fierce. Plate clattering, she bolted upstairs, leaving me to ponder the storm ahead. In our family, Jennifer’s mood set the tone, and right then, it was far from sunny.

Life, it seems, is a series of transitions, some expected, others blindsiding us like a falling tree. From grade school to college, accidents to job changes, we navigate a winding path of change. But amidst the uncertainty, we can glean wisdom from the ancient tale of crossing the Jordan River—a journey laden with principles for navigating our own transitions.

The Israelites, led by Joshua, faced their own river of uncertainty, but unlike their predecessors, they embraced faith over fear. Let’s explore the lessons they learned.

Principle 1: Trust in Wise Leadership

In the turbulent sea of advice, the Israelites anchored themselves to Joshua, a leader chosen by God Himself. Unlike Absalom, who heeded disastrous counsel, Joshua followed divine guidance, paving the way for his people’s success. In times of transition, seeking counsel from trusted mentors and aligning with Godly wisdom can steer us in the right direction.

Principle 2: Find Strength in Faith and Reflection

Before crossing the Jordan, Joshua immersed himself in meditation and prayer, drawing strength from Scripture. Like him, we find solace and clarity in quiet reflection, fortifying our spirits for the journey ahead.

Principle 3: Prepare for the Journey

Preparation is the cornerstone of successful transitions. Just as Joshua instructed the Israelites to ready themselves before crossing, we too must equip ourselves for the road ahead. Whether it’s packing provisions or nurturing spiritual resilience, readiness ensures we face change with confidence.

Principle 4: Take Courageous Action

Like the Israelites stepping into the rushing waters, we must summon the courage to act. Sometimes, as Nike advocates, we simply need to “just do it.” Trusting in God’s provision, we forge ahead, knowing that victory awaits on the other side.

In the tapestry of life, transitions weave the threads of our stories, each change a brushstroke in the masterpiece of our journey. Whether it’s a move, a career shift, or a leap of faith, each transition holds the potential for growth and discovery.

As for Jennifer, her initial resistance melted into gratitude. Looking back, she sees how that move to Houston shaped her life—a Texas college, a loving marriage, and a family of her own. Sometimes, the most unexpected transitions lead to the greatest blessings.

So, as you stand on the brink of change, remember the lessons of the Jordan. Embrace the journey, trust in divine guidance, and step forward with courage. For beyond the river lies the promise of new beginnings and undiscovered joys.

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not be terrified nor dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9

Dear heavenly Father, as I live my life depending on You, may I honor You in all I do or think. Guide me and prepare me for whatever steps and paths You have chosen for me. Please open my eyes to understanding, so I can fully comprehend the Scriptures. Thank you. Amen.

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Starting Over Gracefully: Please Resubscribe or Subscribe — I lost many of you!

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Hello there — I hope things are going well in your corner of the world.

My blog has been giving me serious trouble lately — mostly because the “back end” of a website still feels like a big maze to me. Somewhere in that maze, a number of my subscribers slipped away-my fault! I was able to save about two hundred subscribers, but many were lost. So if you want to join — or rejoin — I would be truly grateful. I promise I’m not trying to be an influencer. I only want to point people to Jesus.

If you want to subscribe or resubscribe, go to GreenePastures.org on your computer. On the top right block, add your first name (optional) and your email address and then press Subscribe.

If you want to subscribe or resubscribe from your phone, go to GreenePastures.org, click on the three lines in the upper right-hand corner, and scroll down to see the subscribe form.

Or if you’d rather not deal with any of that, email, text, or message me. I can add you myself — I only need your permission and email address.

In Greene Pastures, I write about the Bible, prayer, and the little things God teaches me along the way. My blog is for anyone wanting to grow in the Christian life. I don’t post every day. I only write when the Holy Spirit gives me something to share.

I believe God gave me this ministry back in 2015. And yes — sometimes in life, He allows us to hit the “start over” button. And with His help, we keep going, one small step at a time. That is where I’m at.

IMPORTANT: If you received this blog in your email, you do NOT need to resubscribe!

“Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall you not know it?” — Isaiah 43:19

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Bloops, Stress, and God’s Steady Hand

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Bloops! Before you write me off as crazy, let me explain. I blooped a lot this week. And my reason? Stress. Real, honest-to-goodness stress.

At first, I thought my bloops were manageable. They were private, and only a few people knew. Like when I sent two packages to the wrong addresses. One was a birthday gift for my grandson—I mailed it to his old house, the one he moved out of five years ago! Then I sent my recently designed Christmas cards to Lubbock instead of here. I know, I know. Bloops happen.

But when bloops go public? That’s when embarrassment sets in.

I was trying to change my Facebook profile picture. Instead of uploading the right photo, I accidentally posted a picture of my hand, one I meant to show my doctor, not the world! I deleted the pic right away, but Facebook warned me: “Deleted but may still appear elsewhere.” Oh no. Then came the text from a friend: “What is this pic?” Yikes. It’s out there somewhere.

So why all the bloops? I believe it’s stress. Last week was full of it. My mind was tired. My heart was heavy. I wasn’t thinking clearly. And when stress piles up, mistakes follow.

Stress can make us forget things. It can make us feel overwhelmed, anxious, or even clumsy. But here’s the good news: God doesn’t write us off when we bloop. He doesn’t laugh or roll His eyes, or maybe He does, but I know He meets us in our mess and offers peace.

Let’s look at what the Bible says about stress and God’s care:

1. “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” — 1 Peter 5:7
God doesn’t just tolerate our stress—He invites us to hand it over.

2. Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28
When we’re tired and bloopy, Jesus offers rest—not shame.

3. “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” — Psalm 46:1
He’s not just near us in calm moments. He’s right there in the chaos.

4. “The Lord gives strength to His people; the Lord blesses His people with peace.” — Psalm 29:11
Strength and peace are gifts He gives freely, even when we feel weak.

So if you’ve blooped lately—sent something to the wrong address, posted the wrong photo, or just felt off—take heart. You’re not alone. Stress happens. But God is steady. He’s kind. And He is always ready to help us reset.

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Prayer: Heavenly Father, we all fail or make silly mistakes. Lord, thank You for forgiving us when we sin, and thank You for loving us always, even when our personalities or humor get ahead of us. You are a mighty God, and we love You for loving us no matter what. Amen.

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CHRISTMAS GIFTS: Add Some of His Spirit to the Season! By Patti Greene

Dear friends,

I’m grateful for the chance to share the books the Lord has placed on my heart. Each one was written to encourage you in different seasons of life — whether through prayer journals, Bible word search puzzles, caregiving insights, or reflections on living faithfully day by day.

Patti and John (Husband) in Lagos, Nigeria, 2014

 

 

 

 

 

 

                                    

                                          My newest book . . . 

Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God, is a reminder that our walk with Him is steady and strong, even when challenges arise.

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May your season be filled with His peace and presence. Merry Christmas.

With gratitude,

2 Corinthians 9:15

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