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Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Reflection & Encouragement, Week 6 by Patti Greene

Welcome to my NEW Blog Series: Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory /Reflection & Encouragement, Week 6

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About the Series: This new series shares the story of my friendship with Glory. She is Nigerian, and I am from the United States, yet God tied our hearts together in a beautiful way. We met at a Bible study in Lagos, Nigeria, and her love for Jesus was clear from the very first day.

Glory later moved to Canada, and during a recent visit, I interviewed her about her life and faith. I’ll be sharing one topic each week:

Week 1 – Our Connection and Story: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-week-1/

Week 2 – Early Life and Faith: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-conversations-with-glory-early-life-and-faithweek-2/

Week 3 – Journey and Calling:  Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Journey and Calling, Week 3 by Patti Greene | Greene Pastures by Patti Londa Greene

Week 4 – Singleness and Ministry: https://greenepastures.org/singleness-and-ministry/

Week 5 – Writing and Ministry Together: greenepastures.org/writing-and-minstry-together/

Week 6 – Reflection & Encouragement: THIS WEEK

Week 7 – Friendship and Connection

Valentine's Day

Q. What is one truth about Jesus that is carrying you right now?

A. One truth about Jesus that is carrying me right now, and has carried me for a very long time, is that God is faithful. If He has said it, He will do it. He might take His sweet time, and He may not do it when we want it or how we want it, but if God has promised, He will do it because He is faithful. I have experienced God’s faithfulness in my lifetime time and time again. I see His faithfulness in the lives of the people He brings my way. We need to rest in the knowledge that no matter what comes or goes, God is faithful — so wait for Him. Trust Him. Continue to walk in obedience. I know that He is faithful and will do just as He has promised, because I have seen Him do it for me and for others.

Q. What encouragement would you give to women who feel alone in their calling?

A. The encouragement I would share with women who feel alone in their calling is that you are not alone. God is our ever‑present help. You need to come into that place where God is your friend — your best friend. God is real. God is true. God is nearby. He is not somewhere out there trying to help you get through life. He is right here with us every step of the way, and He is our best friend. One of the things God taught me recently is that He is my mentor. God is everything to us, and He can be everything to you. I work with and mentor a lot of people — single, married, older, and younger — and one thing I have seen consistently is that even when you are married, even when you have children, even when you are surrounded and swamped with people, you still need God. There is a space in our lives that only God can fill. No spouse, parent, child, sibling, friend, job, career, or amount of money can fill God’s space in our hearts and lives.If we allow God to fill that space for us and truly be everything to us, that keeps us stable in the storms and challenges of life. You don’t feel so alone, even if people on the outside think you are alone. You have joy and peace because that is where God has called you for now. Sometimes it’s just for a season. Sometimes it’s just for a while. And even if it is for a lifetime, God is more than enough for every one of us to serve Him as He has called us.

If you’re serving God alone, know that you are not alone. God is our ever‑present help — not just in times of need, but through every season of life. He is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. If you can hold onto Him and learn to live in the reality of God being your ever‑present friend, it takes away the brunt of loneliness. So many people are married and lonely. Loneliness is not about having people around you. Some people live amid crowds and are still lonely. We live in a world that can be very isolating.

So if you can learn to find that space where Jesus is real and true and close to you, He will help you find contentment in your calling — whatever that may be. He helps us enjoy people when they’re around and be at peace when they are not, because He is always there with us and for us. I pray that you will discover the reality of His ever‑abiding presence and thoroughly enjoy it.

Q. What prayer or blessing would you speak over those listening to your story?

A. The prayer and blessing I would speak over the people who will be listening or reading is that you would experience God on a moment‑by‑moment basis, because God’s presence is more than enough for us. When we have God, we have peace. And when we have peace, we have joy. We are far more stable in a very unstable world. To have God is to have everything, because He is the only One who is consistent in a world that is constantly shifting.My prayer for you in this season is that you do not limit yourself because of the circumstances you find yourself in. That is something I have learned — not to limit myself. God has called me to people who are young and old, single and married, all trying to find meaning in a world that constantly throws meaningless things at us.No matter where you find yourself, my prayer is that you will experience the reality of the presence and the power of God in whatever situation you are going through right now. That you will experience God as your Rescuer — the One who snatches you out of situations you cannot help yourself through or escape. That you will experience God as your Redeemer — the One who not only saves you from trouble but also goes ahead to right the wrongs you have been dealt. And that you will experience God as your Restorer — the One who not only makes things right but also makes up for every loss you may have experienced through the years as a result of what you’ve been through.

God can do all of that, and I pray that you will experience Him doing all of that for you and with you, in Jesus’ name, amen.

Valentine's Day

FACT by Patti

Glory and Patti, 2019

I know Glory to be a very faithful woman. I believe the Lord shaped her through her upbringing, her salvation, her Bible reading, her prayer life, and her dependence on the Holy Spirit. But I have also seen her go through seasons when she wondered what God was doing. That makes her just like the rest of us. None of us stay strong every day. We are human, and we face sadness, loneliness, and moments when we ask God why He answers some prayers and seems silent on others.

In those times, the Lord gently reminds us that His time is not our time. When we carry desires in our hearts and we wait for God to move, He uses that waiting to grow patience. And patience grows endurance. God never wastes a season. He always knows what is best for His children. Some believers learn this early, and others learn it slowly, step by step.

What I have seen in Glory’s life is not perfection, but a beautiful pattern: she lifts herself up quickly, turns her heart back toward the Lord, and gets back on track. I don’t know how long it took her to learn that kind of trust, but I see it clearly now. Her faith may bend, but it does not break. And even in her questions, she keeps choosing God. That is a quiet testimony all by itself.

Bible Verse:

The Lord is good to those who wait for Him. — Lamentations 3:25

Prayer:

Dear Lord, please help me to live constantly in Your presence. As I encounter situations and circumstances, give me the faith to know You are in control. Thank you for being by my side when I am lonely. May I continue to trust in Your faithfulness to me. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

Next Week: Friendship & Connection

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Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God ISBN: 979-8284335017 

Answer Me: Developing a Heart for Prayer ISBN 978-1512760453

Bible Word Search Puzzles: The Gospels ISBN 979-8218070465

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Acts and Epistles ISBN 979-8218092696

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Epistles and Revelation ISBN 979-8363612046

Christian Caregiving: Practical Advice for a Happy Ending ISBN 978-0692115381

Awaken Me: A Devotional Prayer Journal ISBN 978-1490893181

Anchor Me: Laying a Foundation in Prayer and Bible Study ISBN 978-1490893174

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How Do You Know Who to Marry? by Patti Greene

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Two Hearts
Two Hearts

A younger woman (whom I have known for a while) came to me with one of life’s biggest questions: “How do you know who to marry? “

As an older woman, Scripture calls me to guide — so I shared the simple truth God put on my heart. (She has approved my sharing to help others who may have the same question).

The Question

Dear Miss. Patti (Dear‑Abby Style),

I’m in my mid‑30s, and I’ve never dated before. Lately I’ve been thinking about what it would be like to have someone by my side, but I’m also nervous. My mother went through painful experiences with men, and I don’t want to repeat her story.

How do you know when a man is truly ‘the one’? How did you know your husband was the right person for you? I would really appreciate your wisdom.

No Name

My Response

1. Shared Faith

Your question is a wonderful one, and I’m glad you asked. The very first thing to look for is that he is a born‑again believer who truly follows Jesus. Not just in words, but in the way he lives.

“Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.” — 2 Corinthians 6:14

Watch how he treats people — waitresses, coworkers, his parents. A man who honors others will honor you.

2. Character & Respect

Pay attention to his everyday behavior.

• Does he speak kindly?
• Does he show patience?
• Does he respect your boundaries?
• Does he listen to you?
• Does he treat you like someone valuable?

Avoid anyone who yells, belittles, pressures, or shows signs of anger or a need for control.

“Love is patient and kind… it does not insist on its own way.” — 1 Corinthians 13:4–5

3. Purity & Clear Thinking

Avoid premarital sex. It clouds judgment, creates emotional confusion, and can hide red flags. Purity protects your heart and helps you see clearly.

“Flee from sexual immorality.” — 1 Corinthians 6:18

A man who honors God with his body will honor God with his marriage.

4. Shared Life Direction

Ask yourself:

• Are we spiritually compatible?
• Can we talk openly and trust each other?
• Do we laugh together?
• Is he responsible with work or finances?
• Does he want children?
• Would I be stepping into a family he already has?

Marriage is partnership — not just romance.

5. Family & Community Insight

  • Introduce him to people who love you and know you well.
  • Ask for honest feedback.
  • Sometimes others see things we miss.

6. Commitment Before God

Marriage is a covenant before the Lord.

Yes, you vow to love each other, but you also promise God to walk through life together ‘til death do you part. Hard seasons will come, and you need a man who will stand with you, not run away.

“What God has joined together, let no man separate.” — Mark 10:9

This does not mean you have to stay with someone who is abusive or unfaithful. But it does mean choosing someone steady, faithful, and committed.

7. My Own Story

You asked how I knew my husband was right for me. We met at church, and both of us were ready to commit ourselves to marriage — not just emotionally, but spiritually. He was kind to me from the very beginning. We talked openly, shared our hearts, and learned to trust each other.

One of the first signs of his sincerity was his visit to me in the hospital early in our relationship. That told me he truly cared. He treated my mother with respect and tenderness, and that meant a lot to me.

Our backgrounds, education, and upbringings were very different — but Jesus was at the center for both of us. That has held us together for 47 years.

We never believed there was only one possible person in the world we could have married. Instead, we believed marriage was a covenant before God — a commitment to honor, cherish, and walk with one another for the rest of our lives. And by God’s grace, that is what we have done and continue to do.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.” — Psalm 127:1
“Love never fails.” — 1 Corinthians 13:8

8. Final Thoughts

After 47 years of marriage, the biggest indicators I’ve seen are these:

  • Does he love the Lord?
  • Does he truly love you?
  • Does he respect you?
  • Do you love him?
  • What does his past tell you about his patterns?

Pray over these things. Search the Bible. God will guide you along the way!

Bible Verse:

Show me your ways, Lord. Teach me your truth. Guide me because you are the God who saves me.

—Psalm 24:4-5

Prayer:

O holy God, you know my heart. You know the many questions that swirl around in my mind. Please help me know and feel You working in my life, answering my many questions, and leading me along the path You want me to be on, with or without a spouse. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

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Coming Soon: Luke 2: The Christmas Story: Discover the Birth of Jesus in Scripture

Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God ISBN: 979-8284335017 

Answer Me: Developing a Heart for Prayer ISBN 978-1512760453

Bible Word Search Puzzles: The Gospels ISBN 979-8218070465

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Acts and Epistles ISBN 979-8218092696

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Epistles and Revelation ISBN 979-8363612046

Christian Caregiving: Practical Advice for a Happy Ending ISBN 978-0692115381

Awaken Me: A Devotional Prayer Journal ISBN 978-1490893181

Anchor Me: Laying a Foundation in Prayer and Bible Study ISBN 978-1490893174

 

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Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Singleness and Ministry, Week 4 by Patti Greene

Welcome to my NEW Blog Series: Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Singleness and Ministry, Week 4

God knows more than me

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About the Series: This new series shares the story of my friendship with Glory. She is Nigerian, and I am from the United States, yet God tied our hearts together in a beautiful way. We met at a Bible study in Lagos, Nigeria, and her love for Jesus was clear from the very first day.

Glory later moved to Canada, and during a recent visit, I interviewed her about her life and faith. I’ll be sharing one topic each week:

Week 1 – Our Connection and Story: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-week-1/

Week 2 – Early Life and Faith: greenepastures.org/two-paths-one-savior-conversations-with-glory-early-life-and-faithweek-2/

Week 3 – Journey and Calling – Two Paths, One Savior: Conversations with Glory / Journey and Calling, Week 3 by Patti Greene | Greene Pastures by Patti Londa Greene

Week 4 – Singleness and Ministry – THIS WEEK

Week 5 – Writing and Ministry Together – Be Inspired

6 – Reflection and Encouragement – Be Encouraged: You’re Not Walking Alone

Week 7 – Friendship and Connection – Enjoy Christ-Centered Friendships

Flower on Bamboo

GLORY: Singleness and Ministry, Week 4

Q. What has it been like serving the Lord as a single woman?

A. Serving the Lord as a single woman has been an adventure, especially in a world where people expect you to get married at a certain time. You grow up thinking you will do what everyone else does — get married, have children, and serve God as a family.

But I have learned that our paths are all different. The most important thing is to see where God is leading you, how He is leading you, and to be content walking that path with Him.

It helps not to compare yourself with others, but to trust that God knows what is best for you. God will give you what is yours in His timing. That kind of contentment has helped me serve the Lord with all that I am and all that I have.

Q. What joys have you discovered in this season?

A. What I have discovered in this season of serving God as a single woman is that God is enough. God is more than enough for us. The Word of God is always true, and if God says He is enough for us, then we don’t need anything extra. He is more than enough.

The real challenge is learning to take that truth, sit with it, walk with it, and be at peace with it — that God is enough for us. That doesn’t mean it’s wrong to be married. It doesn’t mean marriage is better or worse. It simply means God has a different path for each of us, and His timing for each of us is different.

Whatever season of life we find ourselves in, and whatever situation we face — whether married or single — the Word of God says that God is enough. Truly, truly, God is enough. His Word is true, and I’ve learned to enjoy God being enough for me.

Q. What challenges do you face, and how has God met you in them?

A. The challenges I have experienced serving God as a single woman come mostly from living in a society that assumes people should follow a certain path at certain times in their lives — like a woman should be married at a certain age, have children, and raise a family. When life doesn’t happen that way, it can look like something is incomplete or missing. But, like I said, God’s path for each of us is different.

The biggest challenge I’ve had to face is learning to keep my peace and my joy, no matter what I think people may be thinking, how they may interpret my situation, or what assumptions they may make. I’ve also had to learn how to continue serving God fully — in the exact place He has called me — using the room He provides for me, without letting myself be limited by the expectations people place on those who aren’t where they think they should be.

We live in a society where people think you should be married, you should have this or that, and if you don’t, they believe it limits you. Some even think being a woman limits you in ministry. But I have learned that we are all children of God, and God does not discriminate. God calls us according to His will and His purpose for our lives.

So I’ve learned, in the face of all those limitations, not to limit myself — because the limitations people put on me only hold power if I allow them to. I am the one who chooses whether those limitations hold me down. And I’ve learned that God puts no limit on me. So I do my best not to limit myself or allow assumptions, presumptions, or societal expectations to hinder my work and my service to God.

 
Glory, Pretending to Speak, Baylor University

Q. How do you stay encouraged when you’re doing ministry “alone” on the outside but never alone with Him?

A. How I stay encouraged during ministry alone is because I know that even though I am alone physically, I am not alone. I have never been alone, because His presence is so real and so true to me that I do not feel alone. I know that God is my ever‑present help, not just because the Bible says it, but because I know it and I experience it. I experience it day by day. God is my best friend. We talk all the time; we do things together. It’s not a phantom, and it’s not an idea. It is my real reality, so I do not feel alone.

I also encourage myself by remembering that it is better to be where God has called you than to be somewhere you placed yourself. Wherever God calls you, He gives you grace to stay there. But when we take ourselves to places God has not called us, we struggle. I have seen people enter relationships because they felt time was passing or because they simply wanted to be married. I have walked with people in those situations. I’ve seen them struggle and deal with things God was actually trying to protect them from. Seeing that has strengthened my determination to walk with God rather than walk outside His will and purpose for me.

So I have come to the conclusion that it is better to walk in obedience with God, be single, and keep my peace than to step outside His will, His timing, or His provision and end up struggling for the rest of my life just to meet a norm or fulfill a desire. Of course I want to get married. Of course I would love that. But I know His times and seasons are in His hands, so I am content to be where He has called me for now, until God opens the next door.

I have learned to find my peace and my joy in simply enjoying Him, enjoying what He calls me to do, and enjoying the people He brings into my life.

FACT by Patti

For 13 years, I’ve been Glory’s friend. I don’t know every detail of how she handled being single for so long—only what she has shared with me in confidence and what God has allowed me to see as her friend. I do know this: Glory has always wanted to be married. She hoped to share ministry with someone, and I understand that desire myself. I’ve seen her excitement when she thought marriage might happen, and I’ve also seen the sadness when it didn’t. I’ve seen her longing for children, and how that door never opened.

But underneath all those unfulfilled desires, I saw something stronger. I saw a woman of faith who wanted God’s will more than her own. I honestly wish I had the same courage she has shown. Sometimes we struggle because we want our desires met, but they don’t match God’s plan. In Glory, I see a woman who follows God first.

Even when contentment rises and falls, her love for Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit always bring her back to what is true—her earthly reality and her eternal blessings. Her life reminds me that contentment isn’t about getting everything we want. It’s about trusting the One who knows what is best.

Bible verse for contentment through hard times: “Godliness with contentment is great gain.” — 1 Timothy 6:6

Prayer: 

Dear Jesus, You see every woman who carries the same hopes Glory has carried. You know the ups and downs of wanting marriage, and watching it not happen. Please give these ladies Your perspective. Some are content without marriage or children, and some are not. Lead each one to a church family and into a deep walk with You. Help them love the life You have given them, and trust Your timing in all things. Amen.

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Coming Soon: Luke 2: The Christmas Story: Discover the Birth of Jesus in Scripture

Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God ISBN: 979-8284335017 

Answer Me: Developing a Heart for Prayer ISBN 978-1512760453

Bible Word Search Puzzles: The Gospels ISBN 979-8218070465

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Acts and Epistles ISBN 979-8218092696

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Epistles and Revelation ISBN 979-8363612046

Christian Caregiving: Practical Advice for a Happy Ending ISBN 978-0692115381

Awaken Me: A Devotional Prayer Journal ISBN 978-1490893181

Anchor Me: Laying a Foundation in Prayer and Bible Study ISBN 978-1490893174

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A Small Beginning, A Faithful God by Patti Greene

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Sometimes God begins His work in the smallest, quietest ways. I recently wrote an article for The Baptist Standard about one of those moments, and how the Lord wove His faithfulness through it all. If you need a reminder that God is present in the little things, this may bless you today.

Voices: A small beginning, a faithful God

Over the past five years, I have had the privilege of watching God do what only he can do. I’ve watched it through a Bible study we started in our subdivision.

I am not sharing this story to highlight my role, because this Bible study did not begin through human planning or strength. I am sharing it because remembering God’s faithfulness helps us see his heart more clearly.

Looking back on what he has done among us changes the way we view ministry. It reminds us God often begins with something small, quiet, and ordinary and then breathes life into it.

Pink New Testament

A testimony of God’s faithfulness

The Bible study in our subdivision began with a simple desire to open God’s word with others. From the beginning, it was unmistakably a work of God. He gathered people, opened hearts, built community, answered prayers, and sustained us through seasons we never expected. He did it all in ways no one could take credit for.

As we look back, we see his grace. People have come to faith in Christ. Hearts have opened to Scripture for the first time. Those who once felt unsure or intimidated by the Bible have developed a hunger for it. Many of the ladies have grown deeper in their walk with Jesus, finding strength, comfort, and direction in his word.

One of the sweetest surprises has been watching people fall in love with the Old Testament. Books they once skipped or did not understand have become treasured parts of their faith. God has shown us every page of Scripture reveals his voice, his character, and his promises.

Through it all, God has never failed to provide a place for us to meet. Whether in homes, community spaces, or borrowed rooms, he has opened doors. He has given us places to gather, learn, pray, and share meals. He has provided what we needed, often before we knew we needed it.

Friendships have formed—sweet, unexpected, lasting friendships. People who weren’t connected to a church are now worshiping faithfully. Some have found church homes for the first time in years, while others have returned after long seasons away. God has used this study to gently draw people back into fellowship with his people.

Ladies’ prayers have been answered in ways only God could arrange. We have prayed for healing, direction, comfort, provision, and reconciliation. Time after time, God has shown himself faithful. Sometimes the answers came quickly, sometimes slowly, and sometimes in ways we did not expect—but they came.

We have walked with one another through loss. We have said goodbye to people we loved. We have watched others endure illness, grief, family struggles, and financial challenges, yet remain standing—not because the road was easy, but because God walked with them, and we walked together.
Community Women’s Bible Study

For many, the Bible has become alive and real. It has moved from being a book on a shelf to a daily companion, a source of strength, and a place of refuge. People are reading it with new eyes, a deeper understanding, and fresh joy.

Care groups began and multiplied. What started as a simple gathering of 12 has grown into a network of people who care for one another, check in, pray, help, and encourage. Servant leaders have stepped forward. People are quietly helping people—not for recognition, but because they love the Lord and his people.

And there is so much more God has done that we may never see or hear about. Ministry often happens behind the scenes: in private conversations, quiet prayers, small acts of kindness, and unseen sacrifices. Even when we do not see it, we know God is moving. He has been moving all along.

Reflecting on five years

Five years of grace.
Five years of growth.
Five years of God’s faithfulness.

As I reflect on these years, I believe our story can encourage any ministry, anywhere. God works through simple obedience. He blesses gatherings centered on his word. He grows ministries that make room for new, seasoned, hurting, and curious believers. He honors humility, faithfulness, and love.

It starts with the Word

Other ministries can take heart in these reminders:

  • Keep Scripture at the center. God honors his word.
  • Stay humble and flexible. He will provide the place, people, and timing.
  • Let relationships grow naturally. Ministry often grows through quiet friendships.
  • Expect God to work behind the scenes. Much of his work happens where no one is looking.
  • Trust him in hard seasons. Loss, change, and challenges do not stop his work; they often deepen it.
  • Make room for all kinds of people. God brings exactly whom he wants to bring.
  • Let God set the pace. Ministry grows best when we follow his lead rather than forcing our own.

If our story says anything, it is this: When God begins something, he sustains it. When his people gather around his word, he does more than we could plan, predict, or take credit for. When we stay small in our own eyes, he shows himself great.

This five-year story is not about us. It is about him—his kindness, provision, wisdom, timing, people, word, and glory.

May every ministry—large or small, new or established—be encouraged to trust God with the unseen, the unexpected, and the ordinary. He delights in taking simple beginnings and turning them into testimonies of his faithfulness.

To him be all the glory.

Patti Greene is a graduate of Baylor University and Dallas Baptist University, a member of a Texas Baptist church in Houston, and the author of several books. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.

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Bible Verse: You are my friends if you do what I command. John 15:14

Prayer: Lord, help me to be prepared to hear Your voice when You speak to me. May Your wisdom guide me into all truth, and make me honor You in all I do.

Faith

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Coming Soon: Luke 2: The Christmas Story: Discover the Birth of Jesus in Scripture

Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God ISBN: 979-8284335017 

Answer Me: Developing a Heart for Prayer ISBN 978-1512760453

Bible Word Search Puzzles: The Gospels ISBN 979-8218070465

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Acts and Epistles ISBN 979-8218092696

Bible Word Search Puzzles: Epistles and Revelation ISBN 979-8363612046

Christian Caregiving: Practical Advice for a Happy Ending ISBN 978-0692115381

Awaken Me: A Devotional Prayer Journal ISBN 978-1490893181

Anchor Me: Laying a Foundation in Prayer and Bible Study ISBN 978-1490893174

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Crossing the Jordan: Embracing Change

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Leaving behind St. Louis for Houston was a big decision for my husband and me. While John was sorting out the details of his new job, I faced the daunting task of breaking the news to our three kids. Jennifer, our fiery 15-year-old, had carved out a life in Missouri she adored—friends, school, and yes, a boy.

I decided to spring the news at dinner, hoping for a touch of ceremony to soften the blow. But as soon as the words left my mouth, Jennifer’s reaction was swift and fierce. Plate clattering, she bolted upstairs, leaving me to ponder the storm ahead. In our family, Jennifer’s mood set the tone, and right then, it was far from sunny.

Life, it seems, is a series of transitions, some expected, others blindsiding us like a falling tree. From grade school to college, accidents to job changes, we navigate a winding path of change. But amidst the uncertainty, we can glean wisdom from the ancient tale of crossing the Jordan River—a journey laden with principles for navigating our own transitions.

The Israelites, led by Joshua, faced their own river of uncertainty, but unlike their predecessors, they embraced faith over fear. Let’s explore the lessons they learned.

Principle 1: Trust in Wise Leadership

In the turbulent sea of advice, the Israelites anchored themselves to Joshua, a leader chosen by God Himself. Unlike Absalom, who heeded disastrous counsel, Joshua followed divine guidance, paving the way for his people’s success. In times of transition, seeking counsel from trusted mentors and aligning with Godly wisdom can steer us in the right direction.

Principle 2: Find Strength in Faith and Reflection

Before crossing the Jordan, Joshua immersed himself in meditation and prayer, drawing strength from Scripture. Like him, we find solace and clarity in quiet reflection, fortifying our spirits for the journey ahead.

Principle 3: Prepare for the Journey

Preparation is the cornerstone of successful transitions. Just as Joshua instructed the Israelites to ready themselves before crossing, we too must equip ourselves for the road ahead. Whether it’s packing provisions or nurturing spiritual resilience, readiness ensures we face change with confidence.

Principle 4: Take Courageous Action

Like the Israelites stepping into the rushing waters, we must summon the courage to act. Sometimes, as Nike advocates, we simply need to “just do it.” Trusting in God’s provision, we forge ahead, knowing that victory awaits on the other side.

In the tapestry of life, transitions weave the threads of our stories, each change a brushstroke in the masterpiece of our journey. Whether it’s a move, a career shift, or a leap of faith, each transition holds the potential for growth and discovery.

As for Jennifer, her initial resistance melted into gratitude. Looking back, she sees how that move to Houston shaped her life—a Texas college, a loving marriage, and a family of her own. Sometimes, the most unexpected transitions lead to the greatest blessings.

So, as you stand on the brink of change, remember the lessons of the Jordan. Embrace the journey, trust in divine guidance, and step forward with courage. For beyond the river lies the promise of new beginnings and undiscovered joys.

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not be terrified nor dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9

Dear heavenly Father, as I live my life depending on You, may I honor You in all I do or think. Guide me and prepare me for whatever steps and paths You have chosen for me. Please open my eyes to understanding, so I can fully comprehend the Scriptures. Thank you. Amen.

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Starting Over Gracefully: Please Resubscribe or Subscribe — I lost many of you!

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Hello there — I hope things are going well in your corner of the world.

My blog has been giving me serious trouble lately — mostly because the “back end” of a website still feels like a big maze to me. Somewhere in that maze, a number of my subscribers slipped away-my fault! I was able to save about two hundred subscribers, but many were lost. So if you want to join — or rejoin — I would be truly grateful. I promise I’m not trying to be an influencer. I only want to point people to Jesus.

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In Greene Pastures, I write about the Bible, prayer, and the little things God teaches me along the way. My blog is for anyone wanting to grow in the Christian life. I don’t post every day. I only write when the Holy Spirit gives me something to share.

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That’s Not Fair by Guest Blogger Ellsworth Johnson

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That’s Not Fair!

Life isn’t fair!

One of the biggest complaints non-believers have about Christianity is how “unfair” it is that God throws people into Hell who, in the observer’s eyes, seem like “nice” people.

After all, these people aren’t murderers, adulterers, thieves, wife-beaters, drug users or any of a long list of unsavory types. Yet God sees fit to toss into the abyss anyone who has not accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.

“That’s not fair!” they exclaim.

In their eyes, that upstanding next-door neighbor, or that decent lady who teaches their son’s second-grade class at school, definitely merits a place in Glory for not finding themselves in Paul’s list of those who will not eventually make their way into heaven:

“Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.” 1 Corinthians 6:9–10

The trouble with this way of thinking is that the wrong standard is being applied.

As one of my pastors said recently: “God does not grade on a ‘curve’!” He demands absolute perfection… a bar we weak humans can never reach on our own, no matter how “good” we may appear to ourselves.

And besides: where does the concept of “fairness” ultimately come from, anyway? Nowhere but the mind, hand and mouth of our God, from which all truth, good and righteousness flow.

What’s “fair”:

What’s Fair?

What’s “fair” is that all sin be judged completely and immediately.

If sin was indeed handled in that way, and true justice was executed, none of us would even be here.

When Adam and Eve sinned in the Garden, God would have immediately blasted them into Hell, and sent the Earth and the rest of the universe back into non-existence. Then He would have rolled up the red carpet of creation and stuffed it back into the infinite fount from which it sprang, regretting the very idea of making man and allowing him to have a free will.

Isn’t it amazing that God does not pass summary judgment on our sins, and is instead long-suffering and patient, desiring that we ultimately heed the Spirit’s conviction and come to repentance? This distinctive, called grace, separates Christianity from every other religion mankind has ever embraced.

What’s (really!) “not fair”:

Going back to the Garden: what’s not fair is that God, instead of instantly condemning sin, made a way for man to reconcile himself back to God… something which He did NOT have to do.

Further, this means of reconciliation required Jesus, His only begotten Son, whom He loved very much, to give up His place in Glory, at the Father’s right hand, to come down here and live a sinless life.

Jesus’ reward for doing this? An agonizing death by being nailed to a cross, after being whipped mercilessly all night and convicted on trumped-up charges at an illegal trial. He became sin (ironic, for one who never knew sin) long enough for the Father to pour out judgment on Him so that every human, from that day forward, has a path to redemption.

It says much of our Lord that He agreed to do this before time ever began or the universe was ever created. He knew going in that mankind was going to screw up this Creation thing and would need a way out from instant and eternal damnation.

Jesus volunteered to trade in His infinite glory to take on the limited existence of a vulnerable human, to live the life we should have lived… and die the death we should have died.

Again: Jesus, too, did not have to do this.

In yet another wildly unequal proposition, Jesus offers to exchange our sin-soaked and wretched record before God for His righteousness, so that we may not receive the penalty which our disobedience and imperfection demand.

Oh, the unfairness of it all!

And yet… literally… THANK GOD for it!

But wait… there’s MORE!

Wait, What’s More?

You know what else is not fair?

  1. That we live for one second beyond this moment, because it allows us the opportunity to sin and further offend God. Our hearts beat and our lungs draw breath, sustained by Him, despite His knowing full well that we will continue to “blow it” by veering from the path He has set for us.
  2. That we receive from Him any food, clothing, shelter or manner of provision to sustain and complement our lives. It is only because He loves us that He is ready and willing to do all these good things, which come to Him as easily as uttering the word.
  3. That sinful man, instead of acknowledging Him as creator and sustainer, denies Him and mocks His name. The sheer ingratitude of this is staggering, considering the infinite Being on the other end, who created the entire universe out of nothing, and everything in it. He brought mankind onto the scene and gave him a place of honor in the created order. His recompense for doing this? Instead of receiving glory, thanks and appreciation, He is ignored and disobeyed, while scorn and rejection are heaped upon Him.

So the next time someone accuses Christianity of being so grossly unfair, I would recommend responding with a simple two-word question.

“To whom?”

By Ellsworth Johnson

Ellsworth Johnson is a retired software engineer and high school math teacher. He came to faith in Jesus Christ in 1992, following the full, complete recovery from a brain aneurysm which should have killed him. Having lived in America’s largest cities (New York, Los Angeles, Houston), he now calls Lansing, Michigan home. Divorced, he has one son, Joshua, a junior in college, majoring in mathematics.

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Book Review: Alexander Maclaren Study Bible by Patti Greene

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As a Bible reviewer for Thomas Nelson, I received the Alexander Maclaren Study Bible  (New King James Version® – NKJV), and I am excited to share my honest thoughts with you.

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The Alexander Maclaren Study Bible

Beautiful Beginnings – First Impressions

As soon as I slid the Alexander Maclaren Study Bible out of its boxed sleeve, its beauty drew me in. It felt warm and welcoming—the kind of Bible that seems to say, “Pick me up.” While I don’t usually compare Bibles to furniture, this one reminds me of something comparable to the elegance of Ethan Allen furniture: elegant, eye-catching, and a little more expensive than most.

The Alexander Maclaren Study Bible – Cover

Beauty in the Basics – Basic Facts

  • Translation: New King James Version®
  • Publisher: Thomas Nelson (HarperCollins Christian Publishing)
  • ISBN: 978-1-4003-3595-4
  • Font: NKJV Comfort Print®
  • Typeset: Modeled after Scottish Roman type (1808–1813)
  • Extras: Blue satin ribbon and thumb indexing
  • Copyright: 2025

Elegant Exterior – Spine & Front Cover Decor

The sky blue “leathersoft” cover features graceful gold accents on the spine, front, and back. A script “M” for Maclaren appears on the spine, along with the Bible’s title and NKJV imprint. Both covers display a matching floral pattern that continues onto the page edges when closed. This edition feels especially fitting for women—a thoughtful gift for someone dear.

Treasures Within – Contents and Interior Design

The front pages offer a preface to the NKJV, a list of Bible books, abbreviations, and an introduction to Alexander Maclaren, known as “the Prince of Expositors.” In the back pages, you’ll find a bibliography, a four-page index of features (Christ connections, life applications, and outlines), seven maps, and a 388-page concordance. Yes, you heard me right – 388 pages! Wow.

The 388-page Concordance

Inside, the layout is both practical and beautiful. Blue boxes highlight Scripture with a cross symbol, while decorative frames hold life applications. “Triumphant Prayers” appear throughout. The two-column format includes reference verses between columns and footnotes at the bottom of select pages. The blue satin ribbon adds a graceful touch.

Radiant Purpose – What Makes This Bible Special

This Bible stands out for its look, feel, and thoughtful design. One feature I haven’t seen elsewhere is how it includes highlights of Christ in both the Old and New Testaments—a meaningful detail that deepens its impact.

The Alexander Maclaren’s Study Bible – Interior

Designed for Hearts – Who Is This Bible Written For

This Bible would bless a wide range of readers—from seekers, new believers, to seasoned followers. Its gentle tone and thoughtful features make it an excellent companion for anyone seeking deeper faith. But, due to the cover, I would say, especially for women! There are previously published works for men, as well.

Unique Beauty – What Sets This Bible Apart

This Bible makes me smile. It feels like it’s whispering, “Lift me up and read me.” I can visualize it on coffee tables and office desks, luring folks to pick it up to read it. The seven maps in the back are clear and easy to follow, especially Paul’s journey to Rome, which many Bibles leave out. The color coordination from cover to content is stunning. The concordance is thorough, and the biography of Alexander Maclaren adds depth. When I first opened it, I wondered, “Who exactly is Maclaren?” After reading about his life and ministry, I now want to explore his sermons. FYI, Maclaren was elected president of the Baptist Union in 1875 and “preached with a power that rivaled Charles Spurgeon.”

The Alexander Maclaren Study Bible

Graceful Adjustments – If I Could Tweak

If I could adjust a few things, I’d widen the margins to give note-takers more space. I’d also redesign the sleeve to reflect better the Bible’s beauty—right now, it doesn’t do it justice. In a bookstore, I might overlook it and miss out. Lastly, I’d shrink the cover design slightly to allow room for personal imprints, which isn’t possible with this design.

Lasting Impressions – Final Thoughts

If you’re looking for a meaningful gift, this Bible is worth considering. It’s a study Bible, so it’s a bit heavier—but it’s full of treasures. I’ll definitely be using the concordance often. I absolutely love this Bible and wholeheartedly recommend it—for a friend or for yourself.

“The gospel is not speculation but fact. It is truth, because it is the record of a person who is the Truth.” ~ Alexander MacLaren

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THE WAIT IS OVER! My new book, Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God is now available !

Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God by Patti Greene

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THE WAIT IS OVER! My new book, Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God, is now available. Ready to inspire, strengthen, and encourage you to pursue God’s path with unwavering faith.  And as proof that miracles still happen, my “desk” is finally clear–turns out writing a book creates more clutter than ever imaginable. 

But what you see below is a very messy table, with stacks of books and Bibles that filled every nook and cranny of my dining room as this book was being produced!

My work “desk” during a neat phase!

Unstoppable is officially LIVE and ready to jump off the shelves! You can grab it on Amazon or order it at your favorite local bookstore. But before I get into the wild ride that was my writing and publishing journey, let me tell you what’s inside.

This book began as a love letter to my children, a way for them to hear my voice long after I’m gone. But somewhere along the way, I realized it wasn’t just for them. It was for every believer, every seeker, every soul longing to know God more. The words are mine. Every thought, every bit of wisdom comes from a journey with the Lord. And I hope that as you read, you hear my voice—not just in ink, but in your heart. It is a book about the Bible, Prayer, Christian Living, Leadership, and Crises.

The Writing Process

Writing a book should come with a survival guide. Between editing, formatting, and proofing (more than one hundred times), I learned that endnotes and bibliographies were designed to evaluate human patience. My dining room transformed into a battlefield of books, sticky notes, and a laptop that looked like it had survived a war. In an attempt to feel like I was in control of something, I started frequenting the nail salon. If nothing else, the salon became a form of stress relief to me.

And then there were the technical nightmares—the formatting jargon no one warns you about. Acrobat, DPI, cropping, templates, first-line indents, hyperlinks, marketing strategies, and the dreaded Kindle Previewer. I wrestled with Smashwords, preorders, reflowable text, TOC (which I now believe stands for “Totally Overwhelming Chaos”), citations, quotation marks, italics, and hyphens. Every minor detail became a new mountain to climb. Somewhere between resizing eBook files and debating whether “almighty” should be capitalized or not, I pondered every life instance, from toddlerhood to now, that the Lord allowed me to until this moment. And yes, He prepared me.

What God Taught Me Through the Process

But in all the challenges, God was working on me. He taught me patience, the importance of time management (because writing at 2 a.m. is not sustainable), and the power of prayer (especially when my manuscript almost disappeared into the abyss). I learned about His glory and honor, self-control, thankfulness, and stick-to-itiveness. Quitting was never an option. The Lord reminded me that persistence matters, that gratitude changes everything, and that friends, faith, and a sound support system are essential.

The Publishing Process

Ah, publishing—the part where a writer either gets an agent or slowly realizes that the industry now requires social media influence and more friends than you have. After six months of rejections and feedback that I wasn’t quite “popular enough,” I did what any stubborn writer would do—I self-published. Again.

This final process was chaotic, exhausting, but God nudged me forward, whispering that this book mattered. And when God nudges, you listen and obey—even if you’re delirious from lack of sleep.

Conclusion

So, here it is—Unstoppable: Go the Distance with God. It’s in the wild now, floating in Amazon’s Sea of millions of books. Will it become a bestseller? Who knows. But that’s never been the point. It’s a book of faith, a book of endurance, and, frankly, a book that put me through the ringer. And I believe it’s meant for someone, maybe even you. 

So, go ahead and grab a copy. Not just because I’d love for you to buy it,  but because I believe God has a purpose for everyone’s life, and it was written to help people live a godly life and “go the distance,” until God calls them home.

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How Cataract Surgery was My Spiritual Formation by Patti Greene

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Initial consult: Waiting (Philippians 4:6-7)

It all started gradually—the blurriness creeping in, turning my daily life into a blur.

My eyeglasses became unreliable after two long years. So, I finally decided it was time to see a new ophthalmologist.

“Cataract surgery is necessary,” he said, confirming what I expected.

Hearing those words felt like a stark realization that I was indeed aging.

With the doctor’s instructions in hand, I braced myself for a prolonged wait. Insurance hurdles, paperwork, appointments, and unexpected heart tests prolonged the process significantly longer than I anticipated.

As I waited for the final OK for surgery, it struck me how waiting on God felt similar.

“His timing is perfect,” even when the delays stir up anxiety.

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with Thanksgiving, let your request be made known to God; And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:6-7 NKJV

Surgery readiness: Time to prep (Proverbs 24:27)

Two days before my surgery, the home prep began. It included eye drops, eyelid wipes, and pages of instructions.

The real challenge hit me on those two days before surgery when I had to give up coffee. Two days without my beloved caffeine felt like pure torture. I scraped by with sheer willpower. Well—perhaps to sound more biblical—maybe it was a bit of self-control.

When I thought it couldn’t get any tougher, “the doctor’s rules” added salt to the wound: No eye makeup for two days before surgery. Seriously! No lipstick was an even tougher pill to swallow. Lipstick is practically part of my identity.

But finally, one day, I found myself walking into the surgery center totally exposed—sweats on, makeup-free, and no lipstick in sight. I dreamed about sneaking in with a touch of foundation, but nope, the surgery rules demanded a complete surrender.

Here’s the lesson I had to learn: Sometimes you have to give up what you desire, even if it’s just temporarily.

God asks us to come to him “just as we are,” not in perfection, but wrapped in humility. It’s uncomfortable, yet that’s when we understand our true identity isn’t in our appearances but in who we are in Christ.

Prepare your work outside,
And make it ready for yourself in the field;
Afterward, then, build your house. Proverbs 24:27 NASB

Pre-op consult: Yield to the process (1 Peter 2:13)

What we value reveals a great deal about us. I truly value my eyesight.

At the surgical center, a medical bracelet was slapped on my wrist, but only after my husband handled our financial commitments. Makes perfect sense.

During the doctor’s consult before my surgery, I told my surgeon: “I love to read. So, do a good job.”

I could hear a man in the next cubicle being prayed over before his surgery, and I had a longing for the same.

I asked my nurse and doctor who was praying for that gentleman. The nurse said it wasn’t her. The doctor said it wasn’t him.

So, I told them, “I guess that means I need to pray for myself.”

So, I did. Though my husband had already lifted my surgery up in prayer, I still wanted more prayers. I wasn’t afraid of the surgery itself. I just worried about the changes awaiting me if the outcome wasn’t what I envisioned for myself. Oh, me of little faith.

After I chatted with God, I made up my mind to release control, putting my trust in my nurse, doctor, and anesthesiologist to do the right thing.

It took me back to the moment I accepted Christ, when I stopped trying to fix everything myself and learned to trust in the grace He freely gave to me. What a special day it was when the Holy Spirit first led me to believe in Christ with my whole heart.

For the Lord’s sake, submit to all human authority—whether the king as head of state,  1 Peter 2:13 NLT. During surgery:

No recollection, which was a good thing. (Philippians 3:13)

Brothers and sisters, I do not regard myself as having taken hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, Philippians 3:13 NASB

Post-op instructions (Hebrews 5:8)

“Keep the eye patch on.” Easy.

“Use the drops four times a day.” Feasible.

“Don’t lift anything heavy.” No problem.

“Don’t bend over.” A struggle.

Every step mattered for healing. Ignoring the doctor’s instructions could jeopardize not just my eyesight but also the ministry the Lord graciously has given me. Staying faithful to the end means continuous obedience. God’s word is our map, and his commands protect and keep us on track.

Although he was the Son, he learned obedience from what he suffered. Hebrews 5:8 CSB

Post surgery: Persevere to the very end (James 1:17)

On the drive home, my woozy post-anesthesia chatter and nonsensical thoughts entertained my husband, but all I could think about was coffee.

I had already told him our first stop after my surgery would be McDonald’s for some coffee. Oh, what pure joy I encountered as we drove away from the drive-thru. I truly felt God’s favor was upon me at that moment.

 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17 CSB

Recovery (Psalm 62:1)

Upon arriving home, I sat by our large glass window overlooking our backyard. I began to reflect on everything I had learned. I glanced at the peaceful view—the trees swaying in the wind, the water rippling at their banks, and the breeze whispering through the air. The world was moving, yet I was forced to be still.

How often does God ask us to slow down, look ahead, and truly see his creation, his presence, his gentle leading, which is frequently unnoticed in our rush? Probably more than we would like to admit.

My soul waits in silence for God alone;
From Him comes my salvation. Psalm 62:1 NASB

Concluding reflections (Jeremiah 29:11)

Just like that first post-surgery cup of coffee, God provides what we need at the perfect time.

When I can finally wear lipstick again, I will be in “hog heaven”—a state of utter bliss and contentment. Still, even then, I know genuine renewal isn’t in the color of my lips, but in the clarity of my vision, both physically and spiritually.

It is always good to follow Christ and to remind ourselves not to boast about tomorrow, for we do not know what it will bring. We must trust and obey and “fix our eyes on Him.” When we do that, our spiritual vision becomes clearer.

After we have encountered something once, we are better equipped for the next go around, and that thought makes me less anxious about my second cataract surgery next week.

For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans for prosperity and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11 

God bless.

Bible Verses

Let there be light; and there was light. Genesis 1:3 NKJV

Open my eyes, that I may see wondrous things from Your law. Psalm 119:18 NASB

For the LORD God is a sun and shield; The LORD gives grace and glory; No good thing does He withhold from those who walk uprightly. Psalm 84:11 NASB

Just as you do not know the path of the wind and how bones are formed in the womb of the pregnant woman, so you do not know the activity of God who makes all things. Ecclesiastes 11:5 NASB

Prayer

Dear heavenly Father. Thank you for taking such good care of me. In all situations, You are with me in the joyous times, in the tough times, in depression, in concerning times, and even when I have trouble hearing from You. Even then, I know You are with me, guiding and encouraging me. I pray for more faith so that I can understand Your ways. You are my everything. Amen

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Initially published in “The Baptist Standard”, April 23, 2025.  

Patti Greene is a graduate of Baylor University and Dallas Baptist University, a member of Second Baptist Church in Houston, and the author of seven books. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.