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Bloops, Stress, and God’s Steady Hand

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Bloops! Before you write me off as crazy, let me explain. I blooped a lot this week. And my reason? Stress. Real, honest-to-goodness stress.

At first, I thought my bloops were manageable. They were private, and only a few people knew. Like when I sent two packages to the wrong addresses. One was a birthday gift for my grandson—I mailed it to his old house, the one he moved out of five years ago! Then I sent my recently designed Christmas cards to Lubbock instead of here. I know, I know. Bloops happen.

But when bloops go public? That’s when embarrassment sets in.

I was trying to change my Facebook profile picture. Instead of uploading the right photo, I accidentally posted a picture of my hand, one I meant to show my doctor, not the world! I deleted the pic right away, but Facebook warned me: “Deleted but may still appear elsewhere.” Oh no. Then came the text from a friend: “What is this pic?” Yikes. It’s out there somewhere.

So why all the bloops? I believe it’s stress. Last week was full of it. My mind was tired. My heart was heavy. I wasn’t thinking clearly. And when stress piles up, mistakes follow.

Stress can make us forget things. It can make us feel overwhelmed, anxious, or even clumsy. But here’s the good news: God doesn’t write us off when we bloop. He doesn’t laugh or roll His eyes, or maybe He does, but I know He meets us in our mess and offers peace.

Let’s look at what the Bible says about stress and God’s care:

1. “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” — 1 Peter 5:7
God doesn’t just tolerate our stress—He invites us to hand it over.

2. Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28
When we’re tired and bloopy, Jesus offers rest—not shame.

3. “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” — Psalm 46:1
He’s not just near us in calm moments. He’s right there in the chaos.

4. “The Lord gives strength to His people; the Lord blesses His people with peace.” — Psalm 29:11
Strength and peace are gifts He gives freely, even when we feel weak.

So if you’ve blooped lately—sent something to the wrong address, posted the wrong photo, or just felt off—take heart. You’re not alone. Stress happens. But God is steady. He’s kind. And He is always ready to help us reset.

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Prayer: Heavenly Father, we all fail or make silly mistakes. Lord, thank You for forgiving us when we sin, and thank You for loving us always, even when our personalities or humor get ahead of us. You are a mighty God, and we love You for loving us no matter what. Amen.

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What Does Home Mean to You? Guest Blogger – Jackie Trottmann

Dear Readers,
 
Today, my friend Jackie, who lost her husband recently, is graciously allowing me to share her thoughts. Jackie, in her blog, shared how losing her husband, makes her ponder her view of home.
While I haven’t experienced such loss, I know many who have, and I pray for them to find healing and purpose. In fact, I selfishly hope I never have to go through it, because I don’t want to be alone. However,  we can’t predict our future, but I believe God guides us through every challenge we must face,
 
I encourage you to read Jackie’s blog with an open heart and pray for her and those going through similar journeys. And if you are so inclined, feel free to join her site to receive more articles written by her. [Name and address are listed below.]
 
God bless you.
 

 
What Does Home Mean to You?
by Jackie Trottmann
 
Those who love me will keep my word, and my Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them. John 14:23
 

I’ve been going through a lot of old journals lately. This subject of home I had been kicking around in September of 2018. It was three months prior to moving into the new home Robert and I had built. 

The dictionary describes home as: 

  1. A place of residence
  2. The place in which one’s domestic affections are centered
  3. The native place or region of a thing
  4. Any place of refuge

And some home sayings are: At home – meaning at ease.

Home free – meaning safe, secure and settled. 

During this transition from one home to another, I was pondering what home really meant. 

Now that I am home without Robert, I’ve been pondering this meaning yet again.

A Place of Residence and the Native Place or Region of a Thing

These two definitions hold true for me. My residence and native place are both St. Louis, Missouri. I was born and raised here. This place has been home my entire life. 

My son lives here. Robert’s parents and my mother lived here. As our parents aged, we were grateful to be able to take care of their needs until they passed away. 

We have friends here and a strong faith community we are a part of through our church. 

The home I grew up in holds no sentimental value for me. In fact, it held a lot of pain. It was a broken home, hardly a place of refuge due to my father’s alcohol-induced violent outbursts. I couldn’t wait to leave home. 

Five homes followed. The sixth became my refuge where I finally came home to myself after a painful divorce. I found my joy there.

After Robert and I married, I moved into his home. It was a cozy little sanctuary for 14 years. But after Robert’s Parkinson’s diagnosis, that home would not be suitable for the growing needs we would require for his safety. Plus, we needed more space for hosting friends and family.

The Place in Which One’s Domestic Affections Are Centered – And a Place of Refuge

Now that Robert is gone, I once again find that I am coming home to myself. In this case, physically and spiritually.

I am so grateful that we built this home because it truly is a sanctuary and place of refuge. It’s extremely quiet. There is lots of what I call gracious space. While our prior home was cozy, it could easily become cluttered and cramped. 

Feeling Exiled from Home

There was a visiting pastor and therapist who gave a sermon called At Home Even in Exile. 

The passage used was Isaiah 51:1-6 where the Israelites were exiled from their homes. The promise was that God [would] never leave ]them and [would] deliver them. 

She shared her story of depression. It flares up like the bad disk in her back. Unlike the disk, which causes physical pain, depression will attack her emotionally. Left unchecked, it will question her existential truths: does God love me, does my husband love me, does what I do matter?

Her simple garden variety anxiety turns into a place where she no longer feels at home in her family, mind, or with God. She is in exile from meaning and purpose and in need of finding her joy in coming back home to her true self. 

Home – The Place That Never Goes Away

I believe home is the deepest part of ourselves. It’s our true essence, where we find our hearts and souls. 

Like a place of refuge and that phrase, home free meaning safe, secure, and settled, that’s where you find peace, purpose, and power, being settled in your own skin. 

You are at home, no longer walking in the wilderness searching outside of yourself for safety and security. It’s found when you come home to you – God’s Beloved.

Paul writes: Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? 1 Corinthians 6:19. 

The destruction of the physical temple in Jerusalem gives way to temple theology beyond a physical presence. It represents sacred space for the Sabbath and other ways of welcoming the presence of God within. 

While I will never come home to find Robert waiting for me, I continue to learn that wherever I am, I will find home within that place where I feel loved, safe, and secure. 

Because I know that God dwells within me. 

Jesus didn’t have a place to lay his head, but he had a Kingdom. That place was always with him and within him. 

May you be at home within, that place where you will find peace and refuge.

Do you have any thoughts on home? I’d love to hear them.  

May you find joy, peace, and rest for the journey,

Jackie Trottmann
Author and Spiritual Director 
Jackietrottmann.com