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Voices: Discipleship: Lifelong journey for every believer

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First Published in The Baptist Standard, January 27, 2026

Voices: Discipleship: Lifelong journey for every believer by Patti Greene

Voices: Discipleship: Lifelong journey for every believer

Many people today think church is about loud music, the lights, or the atmosphere. Some churches use strobe lights, fog machines, big productions, and even drones to draw people in. But the church was never meant to be a show. It is not entertainment. It is not a performance.

Church is a place where people learn to follow Jesus. It is a place where we grow into more of Christ’s likeness. It is a place for discipleship.

And discipleship—learning, growing, and being shaped by God—is needed for every person, at every age, in every season of life, once they have accepted Jesus Christ as their Savior.

Discipleship is a long journey (Colossians 1:3-6)

According to Barna Group: “The most preferred term [for discipleship is] ‘becoming more Christ-like.’”

“A disciple is one who responds in faith and obedience to the gracious call to follow Jesus Christ. Being a disciple is a lifelong process of dying to self while allowing Jesus to come alive in us,” the Barna report adds.

These definitions beautifully support the heart of discipleship. It is not optional, seasonal, or limited to certain personalities or ages. It is every Christian’s lifelong journey of becoming more like Jesus.

Discipleship is for every age and stage (Hebrews 5:14)

Discipleship is not just for pastors or teachers. It is not only for new believers or for people who seem “super spiritual.” Discipleship is for all of us. We all need training, transformation, and a life that honors Jesus in everyday living.

Children need simple truths, stories, and conversations that help them understand who God is.

Teenagers need guidance, honesty, and safe adults who will walk with them through questions and pressures.

Adults need teaching that challenges them, encourages them, and helps them apply God’s word to everyday life.

Older believers need continued growth and opportunities to share their wisdom and faithfulness.

We may experience discipleship in unusual ways and at various levels, but we all need it. No one ever “arrives.” As long as we are alive, God is still shaping us.

Discipleship begins with a willing heart (Matthew 16:24)

Jesus said, “Anyone who wants to serve me must follow me” (John 12:26).

Following Jesus is not a one-time decision. It is a daily choice. It is daily choosing to listen, to learn, and to obey.

For some people, this desire begins early. Children often have soft, open hearts. They ask questions. They believe easily. They are eager to learn.

Teenagers face pressures, temptations, and big emotions. They need honest and relational discipleship rooted in truth.

Adults often get busy. Responsibilities grow. Faith can become routine if we are not careful. Discipleship helps us stay grounded and spiritually awake.

Older believers still have room to grow. They also have much to give. Their stories and steady faith can strengthen the entire church.

Discipleship is not a program, but a lifestyle (Ephesians 5:15-16)

Many churches focus on programs, events, and activities. These things can be helpful, but they are not the heart of discipleship. True discipleship is not a class you take once. It is not a workbook you finish. It is not a six-week program.

Discipleship is a lifestyle. It is a way of living that keeps Jesus at the center. It touches every part of our spiritual life and helps us grow in many different areas.

Depending on our age, season, or spiritual maturity, discipleship may include learning about: God the Father’s character, love, holiness, and plan; Jesus Christ’s life, teachings, sacrifice, resurrection, and example; and the Holy Spirit’s guidance, comfort, conviction, and power.

We also learn about: prayer, talking with God honestly and regularly; Bible study, understanding Scripture and applying it to daily life; obedience, learning to trust and follow God; stewardship, or using our time, talents, and resources for God’s glory; witnessing, sharing our faith with gentleness and courage; and abundant life, or discovering the joy, peace, and purpose Jesus offers.

Discipleship is not narrow or rigid. It is rich and full of opportunities to gain experience.

A child may learn through stories and simple truths.

A teenager may learn through questions and honest conversations.

Adults may learn through Bible study, mentoring, or serving.

Older believers may learn through reflection, wisdom, and continued obedience.

God meets each of us where we are and teaches us in ways that fit our season of life.

Some of the most powerful discipleship moments happen quietly, over coffee, in a living room, during a walk, or in a simple conversation after church.

Discipleship grows in relationships, not in performances.

The church’s role in discipleship (Psalm 92:13)

The church has a responsibility to help people grow. But this does not mean the church must entertain people or keep up with trends.

The church’s calling is much deeper.

A healthy church teaches God’s word clearly, creates space for questions and growth, encourages believers to use their gifts, provides opportunities to serve, and values spiritual maturity over performance.

A church focused on discipleship may not have concert-style music or excessive technology, though these may have their proper place. But a discipleship-focused church will have something far more powerful—the presence of God and the steady work of the Holy Spirit.

People grow in churches where truth abides, where love resides, and spiritual maturity is valued.

Aaron Earls with Lifeway Research believes church leaders should take a careful look into the state of discipleship in their congregation and make discipleship a priority.

God works with our personality (Psalm 139:13-14)

One of the beautiful things about discipleship is God does not erase our personality. He does not make us all the same. Instead, he works with who we are as we refine our character.

He takes our strengths, gifts, and even weaknesses and shapes them for his glory. He smooths the rough edges. He deepens our love, patience, humility, and faith. He uses our story to help others.

Discipleship is not about becoming perfect. It is about becoming more like Jesus, step by step, day by day.

A final invitation

Church is not about strobe lights, fog machines, big productions, or even drones. It is about Jesus. It is about learning to follow him and becoming more like him.

Discipleship is the path that helps us get there. Every believer, young or old, has a place on this journey. And every believer has something to offer along the way.

Let’s keep learning, training, growing, and living a Christ-centered life.

Patti Greene is a graduate of Baylor University and Dallas Baptist University, a member of a Texas Baptist church in Houston, and the author of several books. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.

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That’s Not Fair by Guest Blogger Ellsworth Johnson

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That’s Not Fair!

Life isn’t fair!

One of the biggest complaints non-believers have about Christianity is how “unfair” it is that God throws people into Hell who, in the observer’s eyes, seem like “nice” people.

After all, these people aren’t murderers, adulterers, thieves, wife-beaters, drug users or any of a long list of unsavory types. Yet God sees fit to toss into the abyss anyone who has not accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.

“That’s not fair!” they exclaim.

In their eyes, that upstanding next-door neighbor, or that decent lady who teaches their son’s second-grade class at school, definitely merits a place in Glory for not finding themselves in Paul’s list of those who will not eventually make their way into heaven:

“Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.” 1 Corinthians 6:9–10

The trouble with this way of thinking is that the wrong standard is being applied.

As one of my pastors said recently: “God does not grade on a ‘curve’!” He demands absolute perfection… a bar we weak humans can never reach on our own, no matter how “good” we may appear to ourselves.

And besides: where does the concept of “fairness” ultimately come from, anyway? Nowhere but the mind, hand and mouth of our God, from which all truth, good and righteousness flow.

What’s “fair”:

What’s Fair?

What’s “fair” is that all sin be judged completely and immediately.

If sin was indeed handled in that way, and true justice was executed, none of us would even be here.

When Adam and Eve sinned in the Garden, God would have immediately blasted them into Hell, and sent the Earth and the rest of the universe back into non-existence. Then He would have rolled up the red carpet of creation and stuffed it back into the infinite fount from which it sprang, regretting the very idea of making man and allowing him to have a free will.

Isn’t it amazing that God does not pass summary judgment on our sins, and is instead long-suffering and patient, desiring that we ultimately heed the Spirit’s conviction and come to repentance? This distinctive, called grace, separates Christianity from every other religion mankind has ever embraced.

What’s (really!) “not fair”:

Going back to the Garden: what’s not fair is that God, instead of instantly condemning sin, made a way for man to reconcile himself back to God… something which He did NOT have to do.

Further, this means of reconciliation required Jesus, His only begotten Son, whom He loved very much, to give up His place in Glory, at the Father’s right hand, to come down here and live a sinless life.

Jesus’ reward for doing this? An agonizing death by being nailed to a cross, after being whipped mercilessly all night and convicted on trumped-up charges at an illegal trial. He became sin (ironic, for one who never knew sin) long enough for the Father to pour out judgment on Him so that every human, from that day forward, has a path to redemption.

It says much of our Lord that He agreed to do this before time ever began or the universe was ever created. He knew going in that mankind was going to screw up this Creation thing and would need a way out from instant and eternal damnation.

Jesus volunteered to trade in His infinite glory to take on the limited existence of a vulnerable human, to live the life we should have lived… and die the death we should have died.

Again: Jesus, too, did not have to do this.

In yet another wildly unequal proposition, Jesus offers to exchange our sin-soaked and wretched record before God for His righteousness, so that we may not receive the penalty which our disobedience and imperfection demand.

Oh, the unfairness of it all!

And yet… literally… THANK GOD for it!

But wait… there’s MORE!

Wait, What’s More?

You know what else is not fair?

  1. That we live for one second beyond this moment, because it allows us the opportunity to sin and further offend God. Our hearts beat and our lungs draw breath, sustained by Him, despite His knowing full well that we will continue to “blow it” by veering from the path He has set for us.
  2. That we receive from Him any food, clothing, shelter or manner of provision to sustain and complement our lives. It is only because He loves us that He is ready and willing to do all these good things, which come to Him as easily as uttering the word.
  3. That sinful man, instead of acknowledging Him as creator and sustainer, denies Him and mocks His name. The sheer ingratitude of this is staggering, considering the infinite Being on the other end, who created the entire universe out of nothing, and everything in it. He brought mankind onto the scene and gave him a place of honor in the created order. His recompense for doing this? Instead of receiving glory, thanks and appreciation, He is ignored and disobeyed, while scorn and rejection are heaped upon Him.

So the next time someone accuses Christianity of being so grossly unfair, I would recommend responding with a simple two-word question.

“To whom?”

By Ellsworth Johnson

Ellsworth Johnson is a retired software engineer and high school math teacher. He came to faith in Jesus Christ in 1992, following the full, complete recovery from a brain aneurysm which should have killed him. Having lived in America’s largest cities (New York, Los Angeles, Houston), he now calls Lansing, Michigan home. Divorced, he has one son, Joshua, a junior in college, majoring in mathematics.

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